We think we have the connect to the servers problem found:
You have to open ONLY UDP ports, not "both" (UDP and TCP)
Sorry Piboso, you have the information clear on "Network ports thread" and we didn't follow it... :-[
hi, im asking this as im not the quickes pc wizz around. More like a snail, ;D if other ports are open how will this effect the game, i will only use the ports it required... i have my ports open all in orderfor my games nothing is sectioned to a particular game... and it all works.. i think :) it shows the ports open with a ping test and port check